Have you ever noticed, whenever we defend ourselves to be 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓, lot of energy gets exhausted and it drains our physical and mental energy.

Even after we win over the argument with another person, it necessarily may not make us 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘.

Many a times it’s the ego (Needing to be right or needing someone else to be wrong) that drives our actions and arguments.

Does that mean even when we are right, we should not voice our concerns? NO!

If the situation really demands and it is worth fighting the battle then one should not back down. Go ahead.

But always bear in mind what is at stake and what are we ready to lose in this battle.

Once we start practicing this, we experience peace within ourselves, harmony with others and as a result the relationships blossoms.

Hence, whenever you are struck in such a situation, take a pause and ask yourself –

“𝐃𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 𝐨𝐫 𝐃𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘?”.

Would love to hear your stories/anecdotes about what did you choose and what was the outcome.

Is there anything that you think you could have done differently? 

Ranjitha Raj